Scorpio

October 23 – November 21

Scorpio is the eighth Sign of the Zodiac, and you shouldn’t take that lightly. You shouldn’t take Scorpios lightly, either. Those born under this Sign are dead serious in their mission to learn about others. There’s no fluff or chatter for Scorpios, either: these folks will zero in on the essential questions, gleaning the secrets that lie within. Scorpios concern themselves with beginnings and endings, and are unafraid of either; they also travel in a world which is black and white and has little use for gray. The curiosity of Scorpios is immeasurable, which may be why they are such adept investigators. These folks love to probe and know how to get to the bottom of things. The fact that they have a keen sense of intuition certainly helps.

It’s the Scorpion which symbolizes Scorpios, and it’s no accident. Much like the Scorpion would rather kill itself than be killed, those born under this Sign are the ones who are in ultimate control of their destiny. It is life on the Scorpion’s terms, too, since these folks promote their agenda (they are quite the executives) and see to it that things go forward. Others may find this overbearing (it can be) and even self-destructive, but that’s the beauty of the Scorpion: these folks have tremendous regenerative powers, much like the literal Scorpion can lose its tail and promptly grow a new one. Fearless Scorpions rarely lose, per se, they just keep on going, since they are stubborn and determined to succeed (this Scorpio trait is in keeping with the Fixed Quality assigned to this Sign). Scorpios work as hard as they do so they can someday sit back and feel satisfied with themselves. These folks are intense, passionate and filled with desire. They’re also complex and secretive, so don’t expect to get much out of them, lest they become suspicious and exit stage left. It’s best not to bet against Scorpios, either, since these folks are surprisingly resourceful. -

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Ryan Gosling in Relationships

Serious and responsible, he tries to carry the world on his shoulders and rarely lets others know that he needs help and support. Ryan Gosling denies or ignores his own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept him if he appears “weak”. He is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells himself and others (even children) not to be a “baby”. Ryan Gosling needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with his “childish” emotional needs and wants. To others, he may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. His feelings and loyalties run deep, but he often does not let people know how much he cares. Ryan Gosling also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy himself, and play.

His own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to Ryan, and it is often difficult for him to share with others what he is feeling.

Ryan Gosling frequently withdraws from contact with the world, and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of his.

Gosling identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and he wants to help them or care for them in some way.

Ryan has conflicting emotional desires and needs which complicate his personal life and relationships. He may feel that he cannot depend on his love partner to take care of him or perhaps Gosling cannot decide what he really wants in love relationships: a parent or a lover. If his needs for emotional sustenance and love are not satisfied, overeating (especially sweets) can become a problem.

Ryan Gosling possesses the gifts of tact, courtesy and consideration, and has a strong desire to please and understand his love partner. Because he values harmony so highly, Ryan Gosling will compromise a great deal to avoid any discord or conflict in his relationships. Ryan does not like to dwell on controversial or emotional subjects and often tries to “smooth things over” or “sweep them under the rug”.

In love relationships, Ryan Gosling wants an intellectual peer, an equal and a friend. He is attracted to people who have a certain finesse, delicacy and subtlety. Ryan Gosling appreciates good manners and refinement and is not happy with coarseness or bluntness in a person.

Ryan Gosling craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are smooth but lacking vitality and passion. Ryan loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from his partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Gosling.

Ryan has deep, compelling love feelings that seem irresistible and often irrational. His love relationships are very passionate and intense, and Gosling experiences both agony and ecstasy in love. Ryan Gosling is always profoundly changed by his love experiences, though this change may stem from painful and difficult confrontations or separations. He is somewhat emotionally fanatic about things he cares about.

Source: Top Synergy